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Acupressure for Oral Sex



 

Andy came to me because he was having sexual problems with his wife; he felt nettled by her touch, especially while receiving oral sex. He could give her oral sex, but when she touched him, his body would tense up from sensory overload. I arranged for a series of acupressure sessions, both singly with Andy and jointly with his wife, to show them various points and techniques for relaxing his body.

 

After two months, Andy told me that the acupressure techniques had helped to alleviate the anxiety he felt about oral sex and being touched during intercourse. He said that his sexual responsiveness was dramatically improved when his wife applied acupressure to his back before and during lovemaking. His progress did not occur overnight, he said, but step by step, as he learned to trust his own body and let go of inner conflicts and performance pressures.

 

The deep pleasure you can give your partner through oral sex can be extremely erotic and sensual. This ecstatic experience can also become overwhelming. For people like Andy, oral sex can lead to sensory overload and be more painful than pleasurable. This can cause a person to tense against the highly charged sensorial stimu lation. Acupressure can neurologically stabilize this hypersensitivity. Without diminishing the erotic sensations, it balances the body's nervous system and enables sexual energy to flow.


Points to Use During Oral Sex

Since oral sex can be intensely tantalizing and sexually delightful, many people are interested in enhancing it without drugs or alcohol. Fortunately, several points in the pelvis, buttocks, and inner thighs cultivate greater sexual awareness and are natural places to hold during oral sex. These points increase the circulation of blood and energy into the pelvis and genitals. As the points release, greater amounts engorge the area.

 

As you hold the following points during oral sex, your finger pressure creates a grounding cord for your partner to receive greater amounts of pure pleasure. Contact with these points stabilizes the body and gives your lover a sense of security and assurance. The firmness and strength of holding the points balances the tantalizing movements of oral sex.

 

An oral sex routine using all of the following points would be too lengthy and laborious to practice with spontaneity. Instead, try stimulating a few of these points each time you have oral sex. Return to the points that your partner enjoys most.

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Extreme pleasure brings bashfulness and languor. Jade softens, blossoms droop. My hairpin hangs on my sleeve. My hair flows down my arms.


—Sung Yu  
Third Century B.C.  


 
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Inner Meeting (CV1)

Location: Midway between the anus and genitals.

Benefits: This intimate point enhances orgasm and ejaculation and benefits the reproductive organs. CV 1 has also been used as a revival point, especially for drowning. If I were washed up onto the beach and someone pressed this point on me, I'm sure I would perk up immediately to see what was going on.

Applications for Oral Sex: Your partner is lying on his or her back with knees bent and feet flat on the floor. Kneel or sit on a couple of pillows by your partner's side. Begin by lightly touching the inner thighs and caressing the genitals, encouraging your partner to breathe deeply and spread his or her legs. Place your hand (the hand closest to your partner's feet) under your partner's thigh to press CV 1. Feel for a ropy cordlike structure under the surface of the skin. Place the palm of your other hand on your partner's pubic bone. Lower your head and enjoy giving your lover pleasure.


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Bubbling Spring (K1)


Location: On the center of the sole of the foot, at the base of the ball of the foot, between the two pads.

Benefits: This is a powerful point to hold with your thumbs during oral sex when your partner is on his or her back, legs apart with knees bent. Holding it also relieves male and female reproductive system problems such as hot flashes, infertility, scrotal pain, and impotence.

Applications for Oral Sex: With your partner lying on his or her back with knees bent and feet on the floor, kneel between his or her legs. You may find it more comfortable to place a pillow between your heels and buttocks. Bring your partner's knees up toward his or her chest and slide your hands down to the feet. Place the palms of your hands on the outsides of the feet, using your thumbs to press K 1 on the center of the sole of the foot. Use gentle-to-firm pressure, depending upon your partner's sensitivity at this point. Slowly bring your head down toward the genitals to give your lover a creative erotic experience.

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