Over thousands of years of sexual exploration, the Chinese dicovered
which positions stimulate specific genital areas, thus affecting certain
health conditions, problems, and illnesses.
Your whole body becomes revitalized when all the surfaces
of your genitals are stimulated. A network of reflex points
that correspond to all areas of the body are located on the
penis and vagina, as on the feet and hands. Accordingly,
excessively rubbing a specific area of your penis or vagina can
overstimulate a corresponding organ, eventually resulting in various
health problems. Genital areas corresponding to organs that do not
get an adequate amount of stimulation may become energetically
deficient and cause a dysfunction.
My Chinese sexology instructor, Dr. Stephen S. Chang, once told
me about a case study that explains how valuable genital reflexology
can be for sexually active couples. A married couple came to one of
his associates' offices seeking help. The husband had suffered
dramatic heart palpitations and thought he had experienced a heart
attack. Several medical examinations and tests turned out to be
negative, showing that nothing was wrong with his cardiovascular
system. Dr. Chang's associate inquired of the couple what thay had
been doing prior to the heart palpitations. They recalled that they
were making love before the incident occurred. When asked to give
specific details, the wife explained that she had been stimulating her
husband with her mouth. When the sex counselor asked her how, she
shyly described that she had used her tongue on the head of his
penis, licking it like an ice cream cone. The sex counselor explained
that the head of the penis corresponds with the heart. By sucking and
licking the tip of his penis, she had overstimulated his heart.
When you touch or suck your partner's penis or vagina, you
should give an equal amount of attention to the whole surface of the
genital organ. Overstimulating one area can lead to problems. For
instance, when a woman masturbates, the primary stimulation may
be the clitoris, which corresponds to the kidneys and bladder.
Excessive stimulation around the clitoris can tax the kidneys and possi
bly cause a bladder infection, water retention, or weight problems.
The reflexology zones in the vagina are mapped out the same as the
penis, except in reverse order. Thus, when the penis fits snugly into
the vagina, these reflex zones match, creating a powerful connection
between both bodies. During intercourse, all of a man's and woman's
genital reflex zones are in contact, creating one of the most plea
surable ways to heal all parts of the body.
Whether you stimulate your partner with your hand, mouth, or
genitals, become aware of what parts of the sex organs are being most
activated. Show each other new ways to stimulate the parts of the
genitals that often get neglected. Explore new ways to touch the areas
that often don't get attention. An awareness of genital reflexology
encourages you to stimulate all parts of your sex organs for enhanc
ing health, sexual fulfillment, and pleasure.
As you expand your awareness of the areas being stimulated and
discover new positions that broaden your genital contact, all parts of
your bodies benefit. As you experiment, you will find slight vari
ations, such as bending your knees or placing a pillow underneath
your hips, naturally changes the focus of your contact. Cultivating a
variety of sexual positions can generate tremendous erotic energy for
heightening your pleasures and vibrant health.
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